Has anyone had experience with the discipline strategies put forth in the book 1 2 3 magic by thomas w phelan. By teaching our students and our own children that their actions have consequences, fay asserts that we can better prepare them to make their choices about those actions intelligently. I suggest that parents read about this for of discipline and take out of it what helps you. As you can see, there are many similarities between the love and logic and discipline with dignity classroom management approaches such as showing empathy towards students conflicts and behavioral issues, giving students opportunities to be independent, providing choice in the classroom and by simply caring. Love and logic definitely does not mean saying i love you too much to argue. Discipline strategies that work fit the behavior problems, your childs developmental stage, and his temperament. I read a book called reality therapy by psychologist. There is so many wonderful ideas and tips in this book, i. Dec 24, 2008 this is the first chapter of a book titled the logic of discipline. As a discipline, philosophy is typically categorized among the humanities. The wholebrain way to calm the chaos and nurture your childs developing mind. If you have 25 year olds, i would like to also highly recommend another little book called the pocket parentan az pocketsized compendium written exclusively for parents and teachers of preschoolers.
Do you think your particular approach lacks any factors that christian educators should address in classroom discipline. Christian parenting books that they remove biblical. When energetic, active children misbehave, taking away recess can often be counterproductive. Norman and others in the epilogue to his book emotional design. Behavior management models chapter objectives after studying this chapter, you should be able to describe what is meant by discipline, explain how assertive discipline is implemented, define logical consequences, illustrate how to implement the reality therapy model. It is based on the belief that this kind of discipline will teach children responsibility. As a parent, you naturally want to prepare your child to handle reallife situations. Once in 6 months you have to reach 3 and make anaother refreshpunishment. Jim fay is one of americas most well known experts in the fields of parenting, positive discipline, and classroom management. All of our work is based on a psychologically sound parenting and teaching, wholechild. However, in both books, the authors lay out the love and logic parenting philosophy. They tell me what to do, and i dont get to make decisions. Global capitalism and the architecture of government, published by oxford university press in march 2010. See more ideas about love and logic, conscious discipline and behavior management.
Love and logic was in the first wave of the antipunishment books, more than twenty years ago. Jan 10, 2015 love and logic definitely does not mean saying i love you too much to argue. Greek methods, particularly aristotelian logic or term logic as found in the organon, found wide application and acceptance in western science and mathematics for millennia. It did not give any quick fixes but techniques that you can use over time. The idea behind teaching with love and logic is that, instead of having a discipline system of rules and punishments, teachers address discipline issues on the basis of principles. I recommend you read the original book called something like love and logic how to raise responsible kids and then read the love and logic for 1 to 6 year olds. And further we think it expedient, that in every notable town, and specially in the town of the superintendent, there be erected a college, in.
As a process, it is a mode of deep reflection called a method. Parenting program comparison gordon training international. Parenting with love and logic summary flashcards quizlet. This post is not meant to be judgmental, im just sharing what has and hasnt worked for me. This book is a very handson companion to discipline. With some easytolearn tips from love and logic, parents can get their young children to brush their teeth, pick up their toys, use the potty, or just about anything else.
Practicing love and logic can mean happier schools. Taking control of the classroom, jim fay and david funk offer educators alternative ways to communicate with their students. Best parenting books by authors and professionals with over decades of combined experience. The revised book of church order and discipline of the united church of jesus christ apostolic, historically referred to as the black book, is offered to the ministers, laypersons, and church members of the united church, in hopes that it will assist them as they carry out the varied and essential responsibilities of ministry.
The three disciplines an introduction to stoicism, or applied stoic philosophy, focusing on the three discplines found in the writings of epictetus and marcus aurelius, as explained by the modern french scholar pierre hadot. The first book of discipline 1560 still waters revival books. Some parenting books, after reading it, makes you feel inadequate. To ask other readers questions about parenting with love and logic, please. In preparation for this time together, marta suggested that i read jim fays administrator version of his love and logic book, called creating a. The 123 magic program keeps parents in charge and is proven to be effective, produces results quickly, and is the only parenting program based on the fact that parents talk too much. I have already heard of happiest toddler on the block but was wondering if there are any other good books on this topic.
Lee and marlene canters assertive discipline and jim fay and david funks love and logic. The words discipline and discipleship are so similar its hard to distinguish between the two. Seeking a good toddler disciplineparenting book mamapedia. Two approaches to classroom management udl book builder. Everything was a battle, was embarrassed in public with herfinally called my. A reference for the concepts needed for teaching and discip.
The love and logic model is based on the idea that teaching kids responsible behavior requires a mixture of the two core ideas. Ive never thought about it being christian based even though i read. I suggest love and logic to many parents struggling with parenting. On the day i finally cracked open the book, less than two pages in, i knew i had struck gold. Positive parenting effective child discipline 123 magic. I just finished this book and it has some great tips on parenting. Parenting with love and logic puts the fun back into parenting. An introduction to love and logic by jim fay and a great selection of related books, art and collectibles available now at. Those words are for you to say to yourself to help you internalize why youre doing this. Christian parenting books that they remove biblical references from and market to secular people. May 15, 2018 cline and james fay wrote a book on the topic called parenting with love and logic, and gates has listed it as one of his 10 favorite reads. Love and logic discipline, pioneered in the 1970s by jim fay and dr.
It argues that governmental reform in many sectors has been driven by a design philosophy which i call the logic of discipline. Discipline techniques you asked about discipline techniques. Love and logic was in the first wave of the antipunishment books, more than. Foster cline of the love and logic institute in golden, colorado, adopts the premise that children are more likely to become respectful, responsible and a joy to be around when parents hold them accountable for their mistakes in loving. I give my students the choice of walking the path or performing community. It is a book that considers that children need love but also need to learn lifes lessons from the earliest age.
This is also what jane nelsen, who wrote positive discipline, recommended at the time. Search the worlds most comprehensive index of fulltext books. In preparation for this time together, marta suggested that i read jim fays administrator version of his love and logic book, called creating a love and logic school culture. In ordinary discourse, inferences may be signified by. Its a way to help kids see and take responsibility. The wholebrain way to calm the chaos and nurture your childs developing mind siegel, daniel j. What do your discipline methods convey about children, wrong doing, correction, and grace. The key idea behind love and logic is that children. Parenting teens with love and logic is of course for parents of teenagers. Their view was that instead of punishing kids, which backfires, parents should use logical consequences. Behavior management models chapter objectives after studying this chapter, you should be able to describe what is meant by discipline, explain how assertive discipline is implemented, define logical consequences, illustrate how to implement the reality therapy model, specify the approach of love and logic.
Why we love or hate everyday things that we are all designers, yet arguably one of the greatest. I ordered the book and it sat on my to read desk for several months. Effective discipline for children 212 by thomas phelan book summary by lily talley hi parents. The love and logic institute is dedicated to making parenting and teaching fun and rewarding, instead of stressful and chaotic. Discipline and the child with adhd the letter to bobbie by pete wright, esq. We provide practical tools and techniques that help adults achieve respectful, healthy relationships with their children. The love and logic book however is filled with encouragement for parents. While still very young, some kids realize they dont have much control over anything. When my children were young, i used isolation and spanking. Only as we discipline our childrenas we establish the right foundation of friendship and authority, can we disciple themtrain them to follow jesus. Parenting with love and logic shows readers how to raise selfconfident, motivated children who are ready for the.
I was far more familiar with the common twoword request of teachers and even parents regarding school discipline. Parenting with love and logic the great dads project. They have lots of loveandlogic tips, where they discuss how to lock in love, how to discipline with empathy and not anger one of my favorites. Edg 4410 teaching with love and logicpowerpoint authorstream. Sep 06, 2018 i was far more familiar with the common twoword request of teachers and even parents regarding school discipline. I started using the techniques to the kids at my preschool and the results are remarkable. Inductive logic is a very difficult and intricate subject, partly because the practitioners experts of this discipline are not in complete agreement concerning what constitutes correct inductive reasoning. The concept of the design discipline university of michigan.
This parenting book shows you how to raise selfconfident, motivated children who. If it were the only thing implemented in a classroom or even a home family environment, the need for a more affective approach would become unnecessary. He is cofounder of the love and logic institute and coauthor of the. Educators who use the love and logic approach to discipline have better relationships with challenging kids. In this book, i specifically look at two different classroom management approaches. See more ideas about love and logic, logic, behaviour strategies. Understanding your childs temperament will help you predict your childs misbehaviors and guide your disciplinary style. The limits of love and logic in christian classrooms.
Cline and james fay wrote a book on the topic called parenting with love and logic, and gates has listed it as one of his 10 favorite reads. Parenting with love and logic updated and expanded. This is the first chapter of a book titled the logic of discipline. A powerful technique designed to work with really young kids. How to discipline kids without losing their love and respect.
The love and logic process includes sharing control and decisionmaking, using empathy with consequences, and enhancing the selfconcept of children. Charles fay explains how to use one of love and logic basic techniques the uhoh song. Okay, so the benefits of studying logic might not kick in quite that quickly but there really are good reasons to take a logic class or to study it yourself using a book or an online resourceeven if youre not a philosophy major. See more ideas about love and logic, logic, teaching. Feb 24, 2014 this board is dedicated to strategies for behavior that we use at school and might be helpful for you at home. The book of discipline of the united methodist church is the product of over two hundred years of the general conferences of the denominations that now form the united methodist church. My son is 18 months old and i am seeking a good book on how to handle discipline parenting issues with him. The history of logic deals with the study of the development of the science of valid inference. Apr 18, 2017 when you consistently use love and logic discipline principles, you help your child develop cause and effect thinking to consider how her choices will impact her life and guide her toward better decisionmaking skills and resistance to peer pressure. Jan 01, 1995 i found this book really helpful, and im looking forward to putting the ideas into practice next week when the students start school. Discipline with love and logic angels and superheroes. Parenting with love and logic updated and expanded edition. Discipline with love and logic resource guide fay, jim, cline, foster w.
If you like to laugh while learning effective skills you can use the very same day, a love and logic conference or webinar is just what the doctor ordered. An active, highenergy child, for example, is more likely to behave impulsively and lose control. In 2008 i was researching classroom management techniques and i came across a reference to a book called teaching with love and logic. I found this book really helpful, and im looking forward to putting the ideas into practice next week when the students start school.
Parenting with love and logic is primarily for parents with young schoolage children, preschool to middle school. Each approach will be discussed in terms of origin, how they are implemented, examples of use in the classroom, and how they are both similar and different. Love and logic as a discipline system essay 2822 words. This is also what jane nelsen, who wrote positive discipline, recommended at. The idea behind teaching with love and logic is that, instead of having a discipline system of rules and punishments, teachers address discipline issues on. Love and logic book summary and notes by lily talley there are so many parenting books out there and the love and logic book is one of the good ones. The discipline as the instrument for setting forth the laws, plan, polity, and process by which united methodists govern themselves remains constant. Dec 15, 2017 jim fay is one of americas most well known experts in the fields of parenting, positive discipline, and classroom management.
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